What position should we use for anal sex?
For actual anal penetration, picking a position can
be important. Many women want to be on top, to regulate
how fast penetration occurs. Other like to lie on their
stomachs, or crouch doggy-style, or to be penetrated
while lying on their sides. Choose what's best before
you start. As always, control yourself. Take your time
and use lots of lubricant.
People who like anal sex say that
"too much lube is almost enough." Listen to
her -- if she tells you it starts to hurt, back off.
Eventually, a time will come during your lovemaking
where her anus will relax enough to allow the head of
your cock to 'pop' into her. If she is completely relaxed,
that pop should feel completely painless. Now just because
you're inside her is no reason to start pounding away
like mad. Let her body adjust. Take your time. Eventually
you will both be ready for more.
Spoons is a good starting position
Each partner lays on their side, one behind the other.
This helps prevent the penetrating partner from going
too fast, and allows complete control over penetration.
It also brings you closer to your partner so you can
judge their reaction to what you’re doing. Missionary
position
has the receiving partner lay on their back while the
penetrating partner approaches from on top. The penetrating
partner lifts up the calves or shins of the receiver,
exposing the anus. This can be an especially intimate
position, with both partners facing each other. The
‘top’ partner can masturbate the other and
is open to massage and cuddling as well.
Rear entry
or the ‘doggie style’ is the one position
most people associate with anal sex. However, rear entry
allows a penis or anal toy to penetrate most deeply,
and may not be the best choice for the beginner. This
position allows the deepest penetration and permits
the receiver to better open the anus for entry. Rear
entry doesn’t offer the kind of intimacy or ease
of communication that the other positions do, but for
more advanced lovers, can offer the greatest amount
of thrusting and penetration.
Full front
has the woman lie on her back, drawing her knees up
to her chest and over the shoulders of the man, who
presses down on her face to face. You can place a pillow
under the pelvis to raise it even higher, or the man
can push the woman’s feet over her head. This
position allows for easy penetration and very deep entry.
Bending over
is a favorite position is a standing one, in which both
the man and the woman stand up, facing the same way,
and the woman bends over at the waist, using a wall,
table, or other support. This can also be done on the
knees, rather than the feet, at the edge of the bed.
When both partners are not of the same height at the
waist, some adjustment will have to be made. This position
is convenient to use outdoors. It allows easy penetration
and full movement if there is something solid around
to hang onto
Stomach position
has the woman lie flat on her stomach. Hips may be raised
a little on a pillow if you like. This allows her to
relax more and her hands are free. The man lies on top,
he can also be more relaxed, and have free hands. Penetration
using this method is not as easy and you are not able
to thrust as deeply. The woman is rather restricted
in her movements using this position.
Straddle position
is great because it allows the woman to control the
speed and depth of penetration. Have the man lay flat
on his back on the bed, the woman then straddles him
and slides her ass back to meet his hard penis. Penetration
is easy in this position and entry can be deep. His
hands are free to caress her breasts or even slide down
to massage her clit while she slides up and down on
his penis
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