Seduce her mind
If you want to make sure that her body surrenders, you
must first have sex with her brain.
Talk about sexual plans
It's okay to get her mind going with visions about what
you're going to do or what you imagine doing to her.
Talking about sex is the first step in enriching your
sex life.
Reveal your fantasies
In the spirit of talking about sex, you need to be open
about your fantasies, within reason, of course. Tell
her about the one in which she's stripping in a gentleman's
club, for example, and you have no idea who she is,
but she approaches you and begins silently seducing
you with a dance in front of hundreds of men. In turn,
you can ask her deep, probing questions and get her
to reveal all the crazy things she imagines when her
brain is wandering into the realm of female orgasm.
Make her feel sexy
From getting her to put on sexy lingerie to looking
at her as though she was the hottest woman on Earth,
making her feel sexy will make her feel sexual.
Relax her body
Steering clear of her sexualized body parts, take a
few minutes to give her a light massage that'll awaken
her senses. Rub her shoulders, her back and her thighs
-- lightly tap each area with your fingertips.
Ignore her vagina
The best way to encourage a woman's orgasm is by ignoring
the area from where it originates for a while. Start
rubbing her body more aggressively, kiss her body and
go near her vaginal area without actually touching her
inner lips (labia minora). Do the same to her nipples:
kiss her breasts without actually placing your mouth
over her nipples.
Use your mouth & hands
Spread her legs and bring your mouth to her clitoris.
Use your tongue to lightly tap against it for a minute.
Eventually, start pressing your tongue against her clitoris
and the hood while you lick it. At this point, use your
fingers to manipulate her vagina. Because you have more
control with your fingers than you do with your penis,
you can manipulate her clitoris and G-spot more easily.
She may reach orgasm at this point.
Do two things at once
If you can, suck her nipples while your fingers are
doing their thing inside her. Or, you can tickle the
outskirts of her anus while you penetrate her. Accomplishing
two tasks at once will confuse her senses and may lead
to orgasm.
Penetrate her
This is a tough one because some women like quick thrusts,
others prefer slow thrusts, and yet others like a combination
of the two. I recommend that you do the latter. Start
off with slow, deep thrusts and then increase your speed
-- but not so much that you're no longer penetrating
her deeply. If she responds in a positive fashion, place
her in a position that will allow for full penetration.
She may orgasm at this point.
Use sex toys
While many women will have reached orgasm at this point,
some may not be able to. Remember; it's not your fault
-- especially if you've tried all the aforementioned
tips. It may be because she can't surrender her mind
to the situation, or isn't as well-acquainted with her
body as she should be. If that's the case, sex toys
may help her discover the spot that drives her to orgasm.
Start off with a simple vibrator and if you like the
reaction you get, incorporate other sex toys.
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