Pay attention to physical sensations
Listen to the noises surrounding you, such as music
or her moaning (or even your own). Feel her body against
yours and use your hands to explore other areas of her.
Inhale the scent of sex and enjoy the redolence surrounding
both of you. Use your mouth to kiss and taste her body.
And finally, look at her, or use as mirror to look at
the both of you while you're into each other.
Fantasise
Sometimes fantasising about being with your partner
in a dangerous situation, or role playing that you've
just met her and don't even know her name can serve
to enhance the sensations of sex and lead to a very
powerful, orgasmic release.
As well, fantasising that she's someone
else entirely is also okay; just don't tell her you're
doing it, or worse, call out the wrong name.
Have her stimulate other parts of
your body
The anus is where most men's G-spots are found. While
you're having sex, having her simply rub the outside
of your anus, or, even using her finger to massage your
prostate may lead to one hell of an orgasm.
If you're totally against the idea
of anal touch, then have her wrap her hand around your
testicles and massage them, and even tug on them lightly.
Having her do this when you feel your orgasm approaching
provides the best results.
nterrupt your sex
While you're having sex, stop the lovemaking and engage
in other activities for a little while. Then penetrate
her again and keep doing this until you're about ready
to explode -- and I mean that literally.
Interrupting the sex will not only
intensify your orgasm; it will intensify hers as well.
If she begs you to keep going, and you don't, chances
are you will have a squirter on your hands.
Tighten and release your muscles
Whether it's your pelvic or your thigh, squeezing your
muscles for a few seconds and then letting them relax
will serve to make your orgasm an unforgettable one.
Obviously, I am not suggesting that
you should blatantly hold your breath and squeeze your
muscles while your women stares at you, petrified about
what's going to happen next.
Be subtle, but feel free to exercise
your Kegel muscles, or tighten your thighs while you're
making love.
Engage in some bondage
Whoever said that there's pleasure in pain was right
on target. Sometimes, hair pulling, spanking and choking
can lead to unforgettable orgasms. Of course, your woman
has to be willing to do these things to you.
Then again, I personally get off on
doing such things to my woman. There's nothing quite
like having a woman submit to you and beg you to spank
her. Needless to say, when I arrive, I arrive big time.
Focus on your orgasm
Many guys tend to pump away like maniacs when they're
about to orgasm and ejaculate. I suggest that you slow
down when you feel yourself about to let go. Penetrate
her at a much slower pace, and focus on the sensations
involved when your ejaculate approaches the base
of your penis and makes it way out of your body |
