For some it can be awkward to stimulate the g-spot by
hand. A g spot vibrator or dildo can be a great helper
in this. Apply a little lube to your sex toy, and insert
it with the tip (if it’s curved) pointing up toward
the top wall of your vagina. Work it in slowly, far
enough (a couple of inches) so the tip is pressing against
your g spot.
Some women will find pressure against
the g-spot pleasurable, some women like the feeling
vibration when a sex toy is pressing against the g spot.
Experiment and see if either feels good for you. For
most women, the g-spot responds to firm pressure. In
the beginning, use your toy as if you were trying to
scratch an itch—don’t pull the sex toy all
the way out, but use short strokes, applying firm pressure,
against the g spot.
Vary the movements
A circular or back-and-forth motion may be necessary
to get you started, but you might soon graduate to a
more vigorous thrusting. If you’ve got a vibrator,
try playing with the vibrations both on and off to see
which you like better.
Add clitoral stimulation to g spot
play
You’ll know you’re hitting the spot as you
feel tingly sensations, the urge to pee, and an overall
elevation in your arousal. When you feel the urge to
come, stimulate your clitoris using your favorite method.
Keep stroking your g-spot.
Let go
With continued stimulation, you’ll eventually
feel a sensation much like having to pee. This can be
quite disconcerting at first, and has probably led plenty
of women to abandon the process, but if you stick with
it you’ll be in for a pleasant surprise. You may
or may not ejaculate, but ejaculation is perfectly normal
(and it's not urine).
If you don’t at first orgasm,
try try again. It can take several practice sessions
before you notice any build up. Try varying your position,
using a different toy, experimenting with breathing
and kegel exercises (to strengthen your PC muscle),
or having a partner help you. Because the g spot is
most responsive when aroused, you may also want to try
stimulating it after you’ve had an orgasm.
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