For years, the clitoris was considered the only trigger
for the female orgasm.
Alas, even finding the clitoris turned out to be a daunting
task for many men, and things didn't get any easier
in 1950 when a physician by the name of Dr. Ernst Grafenberg
found an even more mysterious female pleasure spot hidden
within the vagina.
The G-Spot is an area on the front
wall of your vagina that when stimulated, can cause
women to orgasm and sometimes ejaculate. For some women,
stimulating the G-Spot creates a more intense orgasm
than clitorial stimulation. Not all women can have an
orgasm through G-Spot stimulation.
First of all, the G-spot is easiest
to locate when a woman is sexually aroused, so don't
stint on your foreplay first.
To locate the G-spot, face your partner
while she is lying on her back and insert your index
or long middle finger into her vagina as far as it will
easily go. Then crook it upward toward yourself in a
"come hither" motion, sliding your fingertip
along the top of the vagina until you find an area that
is rougher than the rest of that vaginal wall. (Make
sure you have your fingernails clipped short and buffed
before you do this -- sharp fingernails will definitely
spoil the effort.) This rough or slightly ridged area
is the "G-spot," and touching it will often
cause a woman to react with surprise or pleasure.
The best way to manually stimulate
the G-spot is with a firm "tapping" motion
with your crooked finger. Some guys find it easier to
stimulate the G-spot with various sex toys. Any dildo
or vibrator can be used for this, but the ones that
are best suited for G-spot stimulation are hard and
curved. Special G Spot vibrators are specifically designed
for G-spot stimulation, as their length, width and curve
are specifically designed to take the "guesswork"
out of G-spot stimulation.
Even women who do not enjoy manual
stimulation of the G-spot may enjoy penile stimulation
of the spot during intercourse. So, if your penis has
a natural upward bend, you've got it made! Other men
have to find positions that maximize penile contact
with the front wall of the vagina. The "woman on
top" positions and posterior (doggy style) positions
are best for achieving that contact.
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