Tickling
Masturbation need not be a hurried thing. If you have
plenty of time, the excitement can be built up to amazing
levels, and orgasms made stronger, if you go really
slowly and tease yourself to a climax. The secret of
this is light stimulation rather than the direct/intense
approach.
Feather
A nice long quill, as long as it is clean, can be great
fun. Apart from the flicking and brushing actions described
above you can also enjoy a pulling the feather along
your vulva like an extension of a single finger. As
the feather is less susceptible dampness than a brush
you don't need to keep away from your vagina so much.
The great thing is that as you get more aroused and
feel like pressing on harder the feather simply flexes
and so the level of stimulation stays the same.
Shower
Let's look at the most common technique that involves
the use of that neat little tool, the showerhead. The
hand held kind are especially useful for this approach.
The first thing you want to do is adjust the temperature
so that it is not too hot for the sensitive area of
the vagina. You can always turn up the heat once you
are accustomed to the temperature. Then find a comfortable
position - either sitting on a seat within the shower,
or lying down in the tub. Shower stalls can be a bit
confining for this form of masturbation, but there is
usually enough room to sit on the floor with your legs
bent. I suggest for the first time that you do this
that you not stand, you don't want any trips to the
accident and emergency when you accidentally slip and
fall.
Now, take the showerhead and let the
water spray over your body, feel the tingling sensations
as it sprays against your breasts. Imagine the sensations
are being created by the hands of your lover and spray
where you want to feel the touch. Slowly make your way
down your torso to your vaginal area. Spreading your
legs, let the water reach up and down the insides of
your thighs, and when you’re ready for advancing,
move it closer to your clit. Remember that direct contact
with your clit may be overpowering, so try moving the
water stream back and forth. Try bringing it closer,
and moving it farther away to cover a larger area.
You also might note that shower massagers
come with many different settings to adjust the streams
of the water - everything from mist to pulse. Experiment,
try them all! Start with the lightest amount of pressure
and work your way up. If you are sitting, you can always
operate the water with one hand, and use the fingers
on the other hand to either stimulate your breasts and
nipples, or you can insert a finger or two and see how
that feels.
The main point is to relax and let
your body feel all that is happening to it. If it feels
good, keep doing it. If it's not right, try sitting
in a different position, change the water temperature,
try a different pulse setting anything that makes if
feel better.
For more about
how other women masturbate or to tell us what gets you
off: How
women masturbate
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