How can you successfully masturbate a woman?
Do you enjoy exploring your woman's secret garden with
your fingers? Are you having a hard time figuring out
how to satisfy her completely? Well then welcome to
today's lesson on fingers and vaginas and how the two
can get quite friendly.
The key is clitoral stimulation. Use
the vaginal lubrication to make your finger moist as
it rubs the clitoris. You will probably have to ask
your partner what she likes (technique, speed, etc.);
if she is to shy to tell you, just have her guide your
hand, and try to follow.
As she gets more excited, you might
want to increase the pressure and speed. Of course,
always listen to what she wants, as everyone is different.
You can also intermittently penetrate her vagina with
your fingers, if she so desires. Also, don't neglect
her breasts and nipples. Massage her breasts and stimulate
her nipples with your free hand or mouth as much as
you can, making sure you're applying the amount of pressure
she wants. Kiss her deeply and passionately.
When you put your fingers inside her,
don't be afraid to explore her insides. Now I'm not
referring to naming all the parts inside her as you
touch them, but rather get to know what she likes by
her reactions.
As she will inevitably become wet,
begin stroking her faster. Go in and out at a constant
pace, reverting from her vagina back to her clitoris.
If you can use your tongue on her clitoris whilst inserting
your fingers inside her, she'll be all the more thankful.
Whisper to her, ask her if she likes
it, if you should go deeper, if you should lick, finger
or rub her. Ask yes or no questions or she may lose
the mood. Let her concentrate on pleasure; not teaching
you the art of using fingers.
Experiment and have fun - she may
want you to use a dildo or vibrator either in her vagina,
on her clitoris or her anus, be gentle and let her guide
you. The most important thing is to demonstrate that
you are totally into her and her pleasure. Of course,
patience can be a virtue. Be sincere -- she can tell
if you are feigning interest. When she begins to orgasm,
don't stop what you are doing until she grabs your hand
and pushes it away. At that point, take her in your
arms and hold her closely. If you love her, tell her.
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