Continued manual masturbation can
be quite tiring and wrist fatigue has probably prematurely
ended countless masturbation sessions for many women.
If this is the case then the answer could well be to
make the very small investment required to buy a sex
toy.
When it comes to vibrators there are
basically two types. Those operated by batteries and
those that require mains electric. Whichever type you
choose it's important to realise that both types are
powerful although in general the mains electric ones
more so. It's a good idea not to use a vibrator directly
on your clitoris the first time you ever try one because
of this. You might well find that the stimulation they
afford is too intense, so I'd suggest that you first
try placing it on your labia or your mons.
You may even want to try masturbating
with a vibrator whilst you have your panties on as this
can produce a different more subtle sensation than direct
clitoral contact. Don't be afraid to try new things
whilst masturbating, they aren't called sex toys for
nothing.
One thing that is often over looked when people first
try vibrators is lubricants. Just simply adding a small
amount of lubricant on your chosen toy before you begin
playing can greatly enhance your experience. Just be
sure that the lubricant is suitable for use with the
vibrator of your choice.
Apart from commercially shop brought
vibrators there are other vibrating devices that you
could press into service for fun. For example, the back
of the head of an electric toothbrush is great fun.
The fact that it is really narrow allows it to be kept
on the clitoris even if you like to squeeze your legs
while you play.Automatic washing machines during spin
cycle - if you can sit on it - are great. Look around,
you will find loads of things that vibrate in kitchens,
bathrooms and garages and many can be used to masturbate,
provided there are no sharp or moving parts that could
hurt you. There is a definite difference between a vibrator
induced orgasm and an orgasm produced by other means.
A vibrator orgasm is much more intense and it's not
uncommon for women to have multiple orgasms while using
a vibrator. Since consistent and intense stimulation
of the clitoris is normally required for a woman to
climax we will start with the use of external vibrators.
Classic Vibrators
Are designed to be used for both external and internal
masturbation. If you like the feeling of something being
inserted in your vagina then buy a vibrator a try. Once
again, since stimulation of the clitoris is normally
required for a woman to achieve orgasm whist masturbating
we recommend the use of two vibrators - one on the clitoris
and one used for insertion. The combinations of vibrators
that you can use are endless - and can even be a dildo
and vibrator combination. Even better try the now famous
Rabbit Vibrator which has a penis shaped dildo and a
clitoral stimulator all in one!. Try experimenting with
different depths of penetration and mild, moderate and
intense plunging.
Clitoral Vibrator
An alternative to masturbating with a hand-held vibrator
is the wearable clitoral vibrator sometimes referred
to as the "Butterfly" or "No-Hands"
vibrators. This style of vibrator attaches to the body
with leg or waist strap. Since this vibrator only covers
the clitoral area you can also enjoy vaginal penetration
which makes it perfect to use with an insertable vibrator
or with intercourse.
G-Spot Vibrators
A G-Spot orgasm has a much different feeling from a
Clitoral Orgasm. Some women find stimulation of the
G-spot very pleasurable, while others do not. The usual
reason for G-Spot stimulation not being pleasurable
is a full bladder so it is a good idea to empty your
bladder before you begin this kind of stimulation.
The size and location of the G-Spot
will vary from woman to woman, but it's usually about
the size of a quarter, and lies two to three inches
inside the vagina directly behind the pubic bone. In
some cases women even ejaculate a clear fluid from stimulation
of the G-Spot. The special curve of a G-Spot vibrator
will help reach this area.
You may want to locate the G-Spot
before you begin G spot vibrator play. This can be done
with finger inserted in the vagina exploring the front
of the vaginal wall while pressing down on the stomach
area right above the pubic hair line. While this requires
a bit of body contorting, rear entry or squatting allows
better access of the vibrator to the G-spot area.
Egg or Bullet Vibrators
Controls for the vibrating egg or bullet are a battery
pack attached to a cord. To use simply insert the bullet
or egg into the vagina like you would a tampon and turn
it on. Eggs and Bullets can also be placed externally
on the clitoris. It is not a good idea to insert these
anally because the cord can become detached. There are
specifically designed products for anal use. There is
also the remote control bullet which allows the controls
to be held by someone else. |
