Sex means more than intercourse; exploring all the different
variations enhances your sex life and keeps it from
getting stale. Masturbating your partner can be very
exciting for both of you.
Masturbation has long been a solo activity for most
men and women.
This seems to be a very private activity
and one that people are not always willing to share
with their partners. Many people are threatened by their
partners need or desire to masturbate. They usually
feel as if there is something they’re not providing
for their partner or that they are inadequate sexually
or don’t sexually satisfy their partner. So rather
than have their partners be disappointed or upset they
sneak into the bathroom and masturbate privately and
hope not to get caught.
Sharing a masturbation experience
can be one of the most intimate acts you can experience
with your partner.
Mutual masturbation can be done as
foreplay to intercourse or it can be done all on it’s
own right to orgasm. Either way it can be a lot of fun
and create a very intimate session for you and your
partner. If you have sex toys that you enjoy playing
with they can come in very handy when you are pleasuring
each other in this fashion.
Mutual masturbation can be a thrilling
experience, but first, we need to study the basics of
manual technique. Most men feel women aren't skilled
at handling penises. Their grips are too limp, lacking
conviction and exuberance.
They seem afraid to apply pressure, yet often pull or
tug at inappropriate moments, disrupting the rhythm.
They also have a tendency to scratch. Clearly, we all
need to be more knowledgeable about the proper methods
of mutual masturbation.
Mutual masturbation can be done in
a number of different positions. It’s simply a
matter of finding what is the most comfortable for you
and your partner.
The most common position is lying
side by side on your backs in the bed. Your arm will
cross over your partner’s arm or vice versa and
reach to their most sensitive spots. You may need to
move down the bed a little ways to make the reach a
little easier. This position also works quite well when
you are sitting on the couch watching television or
even perhaps watching a naughty movie.
Another position that can be used
for mutual masturbation is for you both to be sitting
facing one another with genitals close together. I think
it’s easiest if this is done in a semi-recline
position so that you are able to reach your partner’s
genitals easily.
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