Cunnilingus is the act of using the mouth, lips, and
tongue to stimulate the female genitals. The clitoris
is particularly noted as the most sexually sensitive
part of the female genitalia.
How to give cunnilingus
Don't be in a hurry to attack her clit. Kiss, nibble,
and suck on her mouth, her breasts, her thighs. Like
any sex act, she needs to be relaxed and ready before
you start getting serious. Even when you do make it
down there, kiss and lick and suck on all of her, not
just her clit. Her labia need attention too, and many
women love having a tongue pushed up inside of them.
Find the clitoris
You need to find the spot near or on her clit that is
"just right" for her, the area that, with
every flick of your tongue, sends surges of pleasure
through her body. No, we're not going to draw you a
picture, or describe a roadmap. The best way to find
it is simply to ask her. Each woman is slightly different
in how she wants to be stimulated, so tell her to give
you guidance as your explore her nether regions.
Some women find direct clitoral stimulation too intense.
You need to communicate to find the way to stimulate
her best.
Relax your tongue
Many men tense up their tongues and flick the tip furiously
against her clit. That's all wrong. A relaxed tongue
will do the trick better, using the broad flat part,
whether you flick it or just bob your head.
Use your hands
Your hands are free, so use them! A little finger-fucking
is a great complement to clitoral stimulation. You can
also caress her labia, lubed up with her own juices,
of course. If you're an adventurous couple try tickling
her anus, you can slip a well lubed finger into her
anus too . However, be careful not to put fingers anywhere
near the vagina after being in her anus. A pair of latex
gloves and water-based lube will definitely come in
handy.
Get down to business
Once you've gotten her excited and figured out her hot
spots, it's time to get down to business. Flick your
tongue with a steady rhythm over her clit. Some women
love to feel "full", as though they are being
fucked - try inserting two fingers into her vagina,
palm down. As you gently enter her vagina with your
fingers you will feel her cervix, place your fingers
under her cervix and gently push with your whole hand
against her labia, it will feel as though she is being
fucked. At the same time, gently suck her clit - as
she writhes and bucks around, follow her movements -
and keep on until she orgasms.
Don't stop, and don't change
the rhythm. That's the key to making her come: patience
and a steady stroke. Don't vary things too much, and
for goodness sake, don't ask her "did you come
yet?" Let her fall naturally into an intense, mind
blowing orgasm.
d-blowing orgasm.
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