Oral sex refers to sexual activities involving the use
of the mouth, and may include use of the tongue, teeth,
and throat, to stimulate genitalia. Cunnilingus refers
to oral sex performed on a woman while fellatio refers
to oral sex performed on a man. Oral stimulation of
other parts of the body (as in kissing and licking)
is usually not considered oral sex. People may engage
in oral sex as part of foreplay before sexual intercourse,
or during or following intercourse. It may also be performed
for its own sake.
If you'd like to try oral sex with
your partner, you should make sure you're clean first.
Although don't forget that the natural taste and smell
of your body might be what attracts them most, so don't
cover up with perfumes or deodorant. A good tip if you're
concerned about how you or your partner smells, is to
suggest taking a shower together.
When you're clean and fresh, you'll
feel more comfortable. If you're worried about the way
you look, try dimming the lights and lighting candles
to boost your confidence.
Remember to try different techniques
until you find out what your partner likes. Some people
prefer gentle oral sex, with plenty of kisses to the
areas around the genitals first, whereas others favour
a firmer approach! Just listen and look for signs of
appreciation - then you'll know you're doing something
right.
A little gentle guidance during sex
can go a long way but don't be pushy or upset if they're
not ready.
It's no secret that men love a bit
of oral sex but women are just as crazy for it too.
Some men are reluctant to go down on their lovers and
women can be too shy to ask for it but why should you
miss out on one of the most sensual parts of sex.
The best way to give your man a hint
that you're gagging for a bit of toungue action is to
tell him you want him to kiss you ALL over your body.
If you incorporate this into a bit of playful dirty
talk away from the bedroom he will remember it and by
the time it comes to getting frisky he will be dying
to get his lips on you.
These tips are just a cheeky way to
give your man a subtle hint but don't forget men are
notoriously bad at picking up on hints. If he isn't
getting the message then the best way to let him know
what you want is to tell him - simple as that!
Most men want to please their lovers
and appreciate being pointed in the right direction.
And remember- us girls aren't all sex experts either
so perhaps he might have a few hints for you too.
Great sex is all about good communication
so stop being shy and start talking to each other- it
will be well worth it.
d-blowing orgasm.
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