No matter which method is used it is not possible to
touch the prostate directly. The nearest indirect access
is through the rectal wall, which means that there is
still a membrane in the way. This is somewhat akin to
the inhibiting sensitivity a glove. Despite this restriction
the lobes of the prostrate are highly sensitive to pressure.
An array of sensations may be produced by pressing,
rubbing or by means of stroking the gland through the
rectal wall. The most profound of these feelings is
similar to that sublime sensation which is normally
felt during ejaculation, as the prostate begins pumping
semen.
The prostate gland is located about
two inches inside the rectum on the front wall, close
to the penis. The prostate gland itself is about the
size of a walnut, so it it is usually fairly easy to
find. It is best for a lubricant to be used. Many physicians
also recommend that a condom be used to reduce the risk
of introducing bacteria to the prostate gland. Latex
medical gloves are also recommended as a guard against
bacteria introduction. A rolling motion of the finger
or massaging device is used to excrete the fluid from
the prostate gland.
Generally during a prostate massage,
the release of the semen occurs more in flow rather
than a regular ejaculation. Some people recommend masturbation
along with prostate massage in order to increase the
amount of semen that is released as well as the intensity
of the pleasure involved.
Lets play!
Many men have a few issues with cleanliness when it
comes to exploring anal play. Having a nice warm bath
or hot show may help alleviate anxiety about this. Also
the bath or shower is a great place to explore.
Because faeces only travel through
the rectum on the way out of the body, you won’t
find very much there. If you are concerned about having
a bowel movement during play, make sure you go to the
bathroom before you begin.
Trim your nails and smooth out the
rough edges.
The lining of the anus is very sensitive and can be
torn easily. If you're playing with toys, make sure
there are no sharp edges (sometimes anal beads have
rough edges which can be smoothed out with a nail file).
Consider using latex gloves.
They are a great way to deal with hang nails and small
cuts on your hands, plus if you have any concerns about
cleanliness they provide a good barrier between you
and all your bodily fluids.
Turn yourself on.
Because the prostate swells when aroused, it’s
easier to locate when you’re hot and bothered
so watch an adult movie, masturbate, fantasize...whatever
gets you in the mood.
Start on the outside, massage your
anus and perineum.
You never want to rush the penetration part of anal
play. Start with an external massage. The perineum is
located between the testicles and above the anus and
most men find that massaging the perineum is very relaxing
and pleasurable. Massage the anus using a rhythmic,
circular motion. You can gently push on the anus as
if you're ringing a doorbell, without forcing your finger
inside. This will help relax the anal sphincter.
Go on in.
When you are ready to insert a finger in the anus, try
to tune into your breath. Breathe deeply. The best way
to insert a finger in the anus is to start with the
pad of your finger first (not the tip).
Gently put the pad of one finger up to the opening of
the anus, and as you exhale, push out (as if you’re
trying to go to the bathroom) while you insert a well-lubed
finger.
Once inside, rest a moment while you
get used to the sensation of having something in your
anus.
Find your prostate.
You should be able to feel your prostate about two inches
in and toward your belly. It is often a walnut-shaped
bump. Some men will know when they are touching it,
others won’t notice much at all. It can be easier
to have someone else find it for you (if you happen
to have someone handy!)
Experiment with different kinds of
touch.
Once you’ve found the prostate you can experiment
with what feels good. You’ll find it much easier
and more comfortable to use a lubricant with your fingers
or toys. Some men like the feeling of consistent pressure
or pressing on the prostate, others will get off on
vibration, or an on-off kind of pressure. You can also
experiment by squeezing your PC muscle and see how that
changes the feeling of prostate stimulation.
Try playing with anal toys.
Anal sex toys can be a great way to explore what prostate
stimulation can feel like for you. Toys that have a
slight curve are often designed for prostate stimulation.
Some toys will vibrate, which is a completely different
kind of sensation that some guys like and others don’t.
If you’re going to try an anal vibrator, be sure
to get one with variable speed, so you can start slow
if you want to.
Try butt plugs.
Butt plugs are anal toys designed to be inserted in
the anus and stay in place. Some guys will put in a
butt plug and then have other kinds of sex play (either
masturbation or play with partners). Many say that having
a butt plug in (which provides a mild but constant prostate
stimulation) really changes the way that thir
orgasms feel
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